Diwali celebrations aren’t over yet; some celebrate Tulsi Vivah, and Diwali officially ends after that. I went into a little festive mood and binge-watched two movies with my family.
Dilwali Diwali and Meethe Mein Kya Hai are very different stories, but they share a common thread: family.
Not the perfect happy family in reels and advertisements, but the real one. The ones where people love each other, fight over petty things, and disagree on several things, worry too much, and sometimes have no idea how to express their feelings.
And maybe that is why these two Diwali movies on Netflix felt so relatable.
Dilwali Diwali: Big house doesn’t always mean a better home
Dilwali Diwali has Ansh, who returns home for Diwali after working abroad. He accomplished the dream for his parents; he buys them a beautiful new apartment because he believes he is giving them a better life. The problem? His parents don’t quite agree.
And honestly, how many families can relate to this?
We often measure success through upgrades. A bigger house. A better car. A nicer neighbourhood. A better school. A better job.
But parents may be measuring life differently.
Maybe they miss the neighbours they grew up with. Maybe the old house has memories that a new apartment cannot replace. Maybe “better” isn’t always about newer.
That is what makes the film work for me. It quietly asks whether we sometimes give our families what we think they need instead of asking what actually makes them happy.
Meethe Mein Kya Hai: Because every family has that one Diwali
Then there is Meethe Mein Kya Hai, set around a Diwali family reunion at Nani’s home in Lucknow. Jai, a young widower still dealing with grief, comes home with the rest of the family — and, as expected, a family gathering brings its own collection of secrets, disagreements and unexpected announcements.
Something feels familiar about this movie.
The relatives who have an opinion about everything. The conversations that start innocently and somehow become everyone’s business. The awkward questions. The sibling dynamics. The older generation trying to understand Diwali movies on Netflixyounger people’s choices.
It isn’t a perfect film, and some of its conflicts feel too neatly resolved. Even critics have pointed out that it can be predictable. But its strength lies in how recognisable the family environment feels.
Why watch these with family?
I wouldn’t necessarily recommend watching them alone with a bowl of popcorn.
These are the kind of movies that work better with people around to say, “This is exactly what happens in our family!”
Watch Dilwali Diwali with your parents and you might end up discussing what “a good life” actually means.
Watch Meethe Mein Kya Hai with your siblings and don’t be surprised if somebody starts pointing out which character reminds them of a relative.
And if you’re living away from your family, both movies might hit a little differently.
Festivals have a funny way of reminding us that the people we sometimes find most irritating are also the ones we miss most.
The reality check we probably need
Both films also made me think about how much pressure we put on festivals to be perfect.
The house has to look beautiful. Everyone has to be happy. The family has to be together. There should be good food, new clothes, photographs and absolutely no awkward conversations.
But real families don’t work that way.
People arrive with their own problems. Parents worry. Children disagree. Someone is grieving. Someone is making a decision the family doesn’t understand. Someone wants to leave, while someone else desperately wants everyone to stay.
And yet, people sit around the same table.
Maybe that is what family actually looks like.
What I took away
You don’t always need to fix your family. Sometimes you just need to understand them a little better.
Dilwali Diwali reminded me that giving someone more isn’t always the same as giving them what they want.
Meethe Mein Kya Hai reminded me that families can be messy, opinionated and occasionally exhausting — and still be the place where we find comfort.
Neither movie gives us a perfect version of family.
And perhaps that’s exactly why they made for such a fitting festive watch.
Because behind all the lights, sweets and celebrations, Diwali has always been about finding your way back to the people who feel like home.
This blog post is part of ‘Blogaberry Dazzle’ hosted by Cindy D’Silva and Noor Anand Chawla in collaboration with Ratna Prabha.
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