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This year as always will miss my friends tomorrow as it is Friendship’s Day 🙂 I miss all of them and hope they miss me too :p (I know they miss me). I’m from Pune and settled on the coasts of Sindhudurg near Goa, will meet all friends when I visit Pune (This is like my favorite thing during Pune visit).
We have things to choose when it is clothes, footwear, and food as per our liking and comfort level. We can never choose our relatives, :p but we surely can choose a perfect company who would stay with us as a kid, teenager, or an adult called “FRIENDS“. It is totally our upbringing and understanding that gives us chance to choose a certain individual as our friend for life or for a certain time period.
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Look for someone who will encourage you to do good and restrict you from doing bad things. It is important to choose friends wisely.
Few things to be kept in mind when you analyze a stranger who might turn as a friend.
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Opposites attract is true for friends. It is like the best thing to explore the diverse behavior and enjoy the company&
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Same likes/dislikes. This is the best thing when it comes to friends and turns out a case where mostly besties have things in common which make their bond strongest
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The person should elevate you in a real way and not discourage or demean you in any way
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Always notice how the person behaves with every individual – If at work check is the behavior same with seniors/juniors or is he/she self-boasting always.
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Analyze the overall behavior while you have a general talk with the person
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Not every individual is perfect however there might be few cases like depression, lower self-esteem, introvert nature, fear of losing people. Please acknowledge these things and help that person by every mean. Maybe take them out with you and help forget things for some time and advice. Remember you cannot be in their place and experience so don’t self-boast or compare them with your state, instead talk and help them to find a way out of it!
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Stop Assumptions and clear the facts by talking with the person. This gives you a clear idea of why the person behaved that way or spoke in that weird manner
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Notice if the individual is trustworthy. This depends on you all alone, usually, it is said if you are trustworthy you will always recognize the trust factor in any individual. Trust can be judged on a few things like giving respect, caring, show gratitude, always positive to everyone around
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August 5, 2018 at 12:05 pm
Nice post with useful tips. Trustworthy is something very important as we cannot share our true feelings with a person who is not trust worthy.
August 5, 2018 at 4:57 pm
The basis of any relationship is built on the strong pillars of trust and faith. Good friends can never break trust.
August 5, 2018 at 6:03 pm
Nice post with such helpful tips . It is very important to choose the right friend, we can’t expect them to be perfect. We always need to accept each other’s difference
August 6, 2018 at 12:11 am
Beautifully written. Making assumptions can be the first step in downfall of friendship. We should be open and ready to accept friends as they are.
August 6, 2018 at 12:46 am
Indeed these points are useful to know if your vibes match with each other. I too keep a lookout for most of these points at work.
August 7, 2018 at 8:13 am
That’s really nicely written about friendship and in friendship what matter is the most is TRUST , without it a friendship can’t stay long
August 7, 2018 at 5:07 pm
Just like the way strangers may turn Friends, it may happen the other way round. One has to be selective for trustworthy friends.
August 7, 2018 at 8:39 pm
We meet someone and something clicks and we become friends. Is it as simple as that? Behind that click, there are many things that runs in the background.likings, understanding, temperament, acceptance and like-mindedness. We cannot call every other person we meet our friend.
August 8, 2018 at 3:47 pm
Well said dear 🙂 I second your thoughts.
August 8, 2018 at 12:42 am
This is really a very nice post with such a great tips. Words are easy, like the wind; Faithful friends are hard to find.
August 9, 2018 at 10:23 pm
Friendship is the purest form of relationship.. and I think the most important part in it is the trust we HV in our friendship.. amazing post.
August 10, 2018 at 12:55 pm
True that friends can enhance our life or can ruin as well. Such a beautiful way you have jotted down some awesomeness of friendship
August 10, 2018 at 10:09 pm
Very well said and I am lucky to have real friends!! Friendship is one of the best relationship!!
Love
Shweta
August 13, 2018 at 10:49 am
nice tips to analyze friends. if our friends are bad then its effects a lot in our life. friendship is best relationship so always be careful while choosing friends
August 16, 2018 at 10:45 pm
Friendship is one of the best relationship. Having true friends is really tough these days but having good friends is really blessing.
August 16, 2018 at 11:15 pm
We used to call dveryiBe our friend when we were little, but as we grew up, we realized that it’s getter to choose or pick the right ones. Love your post on how it’s best to choose
September 5, 2018 at 10:58 am
This is a lovely take on friendship. One dimension of our relationship gets buried in the passage of time, perhaps unknowingly. And we keep complaining about it. Friendship are such vital aspect of our relationship and though they many not be our blood relationships but they do more than our relatives.
A good friend can change our life. The trust matters and we need to know how to reciprocate. They just don’t come easily and when they come we need to learn the art of cultivating and nurturing the relationship. It needs lot of efforts and we need to keep the ego and assumptions out of our way to build the strong foundation in friendship.
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September 6, 2018 at 8:45 am
So true. I like the point you’ve made about opposites attracting. I have friends who are the exact opposite of me, that is how we learn from each other.
September 6, 2018 at 11:32 am
You have a very nice blog. It is appealing to eyes and interesting to view. I have chosen this particular post to share. You discuss very important friendship traits and how we should choose whom to be friends with. Great post.
September 8, 2018 at 1:51 am
There have been times when people told directly to my face that I am damn choosy even at making friends. My response alway is, whats wrong with being choosy. After all, it is with friends we share a part of our life after family so I would very much like to choose my friends wisely!
September 8, 2018 at 8:21 pm
Friends are like a part of puzzles and when met, we become one with all the differences yet the strong bond of friendship.
September 8, 2018 at 8:47 pm
Friendships are one of the most important and treasured relationships… loved your post and the blog
September 8, 2018 at 11:56 pm
I strongly believe friends shape you as a person as much as family does. So yes, as you pointed out, we need to choose our friends carefully.
September 9, 2018 at 9:43 am
Nice evaluation, have come know some new things, thanks
September 10, 2018 at 12:01 pm
So true, friends are the extended family we have and just like we acknowledge that our family members are different from us, we should believe the same for our friends as well.
September 10, 2018 at 4:15 pm
Indeed, choosing friends is indeed tricky. Trusting them is the only choice you have. Post that as per situations and in time, the real friends stick by you. The temporary ones go away!
September 12, 2018 at 9:42 pm
Indeed it is better to analyze someone before going ahead and awarding him or her the status of a friend.